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February 21st, 2012

Welcome to the age of vagility, everyone.



Welcome to the age of vagility, everyone.

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February 21st, 2012

swell138: i feel like the best friendships last throughout multiple skin shedding.  since these…

swell138:

i feel like the best friendships last throughout multiple skin shedding.  since these friendships were about the core all along.  one of the coolest things i ever heard someone say about friendship was when i asked someone if they thought they had changed a lot since high school.  this person said: “you know….that’s a weird question because normally i would say FUCK YES, but with my best friend here, i don’t feel like i’ve changed at all.”  

i love the feeling when, with a long term friend, you realize neither of you would ever say the shit you were saying to each other in conversation years ago.  YET - it strangely feels exactly the same talking to them as it always did.  so much so that you remember who you are. 

but on the other hand it’s so fucking toxic when “friendships” become about desperately needing the other person to *not* shed any old rotten skin….

Relevant.  And if someone wants you to stay weak, they aren’t your friend. If someone makes you doubt yourself, they aren’t your friend. If someone doesn’t have your back, they aren’t your friend.