Posts tagged ‘empathetic crisis’

October 14th, 2013

Identifying Negative Attention-Seeking Methods

Identifying Negative Attention-Seeking Methods:

Noted: The author has seven children.

August 24th, 2013

"…the female narcissist is dangerous to patriarchy because she obviates the desiring male subject…"

“…the female narcissist is dangerous to patriarchy because she obviates the desiring male subject (loving herself, she needs no confirmation of her desirability from him). in the case of an artistic practice that performs female narcissism (such as wilke’s), the threat lies in its making superfluous the arbiters of artistic value. already presuming her desirability, wilke obviates the modernist critical system; loving herself, she needs no confirmation of her artistic “value.””

- amelia jones, body art: performing the subject  (via bodyfluids)
August 17th, 2013

pussy-strut: whats that thing where somebody hurts you and then wants you to make them feel better…

pussy-strut:

whats that thing where somebody hurts you and then wants you to make them feel better about having hurt you

July 31st, 2013

Protected: Even better than an ex-friend with a terrible haircut: an ex-friend with a terrible haircut,…

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July 28th, 2013

Protected: "I knew you’d be upset"

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July 27th, 2013

No longer absorbing poison in the name of friendship.

July 23rd, 2013

You may all continue to say nice things to me. Anna and Kara are on email duty.

You may all continue to say nice things to me. Anna and Kara are on email duty.

July 23rd, 2013

Protected: FYI

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May 14th, 2013

"You’re exploring what feels good and avoiding what feels bad and figuring it out as you go. That’s all any of us can do."

Just said this in email to a friend but it’s true of everyone/a lot of my friends right now, we’ve all shed a lot of assholes (™Kara Jesella), and are confronting things and seeing them for what they are and dismissing so much stuff that used to seem important. I feel like 2013 is so much about things coming full circle, about consequences in the best possible way.

May 5th, 2013

And if there ever is gonna be healing There has to be…



And if there ever is gonna be healing
There has to be remembering
And then grieving
So that there then can be forgiving
There has to be knowledge and understanding