Posts tagged ‘kj’

November 14th, 2012

karaj: “…he won’t stop talking about how tired he is. then he…



karaj:

“…he won’t stop talking about how tired he is. then he is letting me know that part of why he is tired is bc he had to take care of me last weekend when i had the seizure. let me note that he only had to take care of me for ONE NIGHT and that, honestly, i could have died…[then] he starts yelling at me, telling me im selfish, telling me i am not thankful for last weekend…” 

This makes me so sad to remember. “I don’t think I’m being selfish.”

BARNEYS VS SEIZURE DO THE MATH

November 14th, 2012

karaj: “I do think there is a switch that flips when someone…



karaj:

“I do think there is a switch that flips when someone uses intimidation and gets away with it…I will say it to you—even if you, Kara, were the worst girlfriend in the world, this would not be ok! That is the tough talk. I will support you whatever you do. xoom” 

thanks, mikki. 

I AM BRILLIANT

November 13th, 2012

11/19/11 real talk with mikki

kj: i feel like when i told you the whole jon story when we were drinking wine the other night you were kind enough to be like "kara, thats not a workaholic, thats selfish." i feel like i might need some similar honesty now. can i email you a synopsis of the insanity that just happened and you can tell me what you think?
mh: Of course! Feminist truth squad, delivered w love

Kara would tell me things and I mostly spent two months being like THAT WAS WRONG and WTF and WHO DOES THAT. The real incarceration was what happened before the actual incarceration in a way.

I am always available for real talk.
November 6th, 2012

kara is the only person who knows less about pop culture than me*

me: You won’t get this, but she is being very Elliot Stabler


kj: I don’t get it. Is it Law & Order or something?

*Although we actually each have deep knowledge of things that matter like Caprica (me) and Fiona Apple (she).

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October 16th, 2012

karaj: these photos are for dr. laura, who bequeathed her…





karaj:

these photos are for dr. laura, who bequeathed her dissertation writing t-shirt to me, which is truly full of good vibes, and also made me feel artsy. 

Kara puts on heels for selfies.

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September 12th, 2012

pussy-strut replied to your photo: karaj: a week after my seizure, a week before the… so,…

pussy-strut replied to your photo: karaj: a week after my seizure, a week before the…

so, feminist permission slip, i guess

I am always available to sign them.

We probably need to talk about permissions slips vs enabling. Or I do, in my head.

August 2nd, 2012

Sometimes you’re so happy for your friends that your heart might burst.

and that is a thing to treasure, in our complicated world, with our complicated ways.