“I want all of those people to just feel so awful when I make it.”
- this is probably true of all of my friends.
he slowly said “rape…culture…?” after hearing someone use the phrase. surprised that he hadn’t encountered it before, i explained the term refers to seemingly trivial remarks and acts that legitimize the domination (rape) of women.
he still seemed confused so i said you know how there’s this internet term called friend-zoning? and he knew what that meant. i said, well some people think that it buttresses rape culture by implying that women owe sex to men who act friendly to them. and then he said he sees the friend zone as an inescapable morass of sexlessness. i said that’s kind of my point, that you see women’s friendship as an inescapable morass.
and then a female colleague chimed in that the friend zone posits that women’s behavior is essentially predictable. and he said something about stereotypes being bad, but women in his experience are just that - predictable. and i recommended never saying that to a women. then i wrote down ”for colored girls by ntozake shange” on a piece of paper and handing it to him i said read the poem latent rapists.
possible hashtags for this project include #laughing at men #misogynists earning phds and #calling out colleagues
is anyone even interested in these posts? am i creating accountability? or am i just letting off steam? can someone please theorize this for me?
professionalize your grudges
A 25-year-old female Redditor has finally come up with a way to beat Reddit’s r/CreepShots posters at their own game: compile their personal information and report them to their bosses and local authorities. So far, it’s working.
Check out http://predditors.tumblr.com/
How interesting that a woman had this idea, and then Gawker busted one guy and is getting applauded like crazy (including from Big White Feminism)
i had a big morning
also, if anyone who posts npluspersonals wants to date/fuck me, feel free to email me. i’ll be in new york soon.
WHAT ARE NPLUSPERSONALS THAT IS THE FUNNIEST EVER. Marie this is a whole new level.